This session deals with identification of the things in our Universe that we can control (a very limited list; our thoughts, attitudes, actions and our decision to seek Conscious Contact or not) and the things we cannot control (everything else). From there we explore a highly integrative, practical approach on how to draw the line between the controllable and the uncontrollable, and how to navigate our personal landscape in such a way as to develop “authentic power” thereby expanding our sphere of influence, our "Circle of Serenity". This expansion occurs through the development of trust and confidence between and with others, rather than through force. Humility, service and love are guiding principles.